Do i tip the server, thats required in the contract, AND also the Maitre d’ that was hinted?

Question by Space Cowboy: Do i tip the server, thats required in the contract, AND also the Maitre d’ that was hinted?
Do i tip the Maitre d’ even though Im contracted to tip the servers?
my wedding reception manager tried to include the Maitre d’ tip in the contract, though there is already a “service charge” (server tips). i told the mngr im not obligated by contract for the Maitre d’, and told to take it out. He did so, but added that its the norm that Maitre d’ gets a tip, “so that things go smoothly, and the servers are doing their job, but also he is ur personal servant…” i gave him the look of BLAHHH… since i know there will be one Maitre d’ for 3 weddings the night.

The suggested tip for the Maitre d’ was said for $ 1500, just as much for the servers.. I can understand maybe $ 150 tip but i not falling for the ‘ol rookie trick. What is the norm in these situations?? i live in North Jersey, and not a big splashy wedding either

Best answer:

Answer by emiliosailez
Perhaps you forgot the Sommelier and the Chef!

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